Small Group Guide: "Yes, No, Maybe So"

Key Takeaways:

1. Integrity is crucial for believers in Christ.
2. Our words should be simple and truthful - let your yes be yes and your no be no.
3. We should avoid making rash oaths or promises.
4. Christians are called to be constant witnesses for Christ through their actions and words.
5. There are blessings that come from living with integrity.

Discussion Questions:

1. Pastor mentioned that "truth is scarce today." In what areas of society do you see this most prominently? How can we as Christians counteract this trend?
2. Reflect on James 5:12. Why do you think James emphasizes the importance of simple, honest speech?
3. The sermon highlighted the story of Jephthah from Judges 11. What lessons can we learn from his rash vow? How can we avoid similar mistakes in our own lives?
4. How does living with integrity impact our witness for Christ? Can you share an example from your own life or someone you know?
5. Pastor Rino mentioned several characteristics of believers from the book of James (persevering in trials, being doers of the word, not showing favoritism, etc.). Which of these do you find most challenging in your own life? Why?
6. What does it mean to be a "constant witness" for Christ? How can we live this out in our daily lives?

Practical Applications:

1. This week, pay attention to your speech. Try to make your "yes" mean yes and your "no" mean no without adding unnecessary qualifiers or explanations.
2. Identify one area in your life where you can improve your integrity. Make a specific plan to address this area.
3. Practice being a "constant witness" by intentionally looking for opportunities to demonstrate Christ-like character in your interactions with others.
4. Reflect on any promises or commitments you've made. Are there any you need to follow through on or address?
5. Spend time in prayer asking God to help you grow in integrity and to be a faithful witness for Him.

Closing Prayer: Lord, we thank you for Your word and the lessons we've learned about integrity and truthful speech. Help us to be people of our word, reflecting Your character in all we do and say. May our lives be constant witnesses for You, drawing others to the truth of the Gospel. Strengthen us by Your Holy Spirit to live lives of integrity, even when it's difficult. In Jesus' name, Amen.