Small Group Guide: The Power of the Tongue

Opening Prayer: Begin by asking God to guide your discussion and help apply the truths from this sermon to your lives.

Key Takeaways:

1. Our words matter and carry significant weight.
2. Christians should speak differently than non-believers.
3. The tongue, though small, has great power for good or harm.
4. We need God's help to control our speech.
5. Our words reflect the condition of our hearts.

Discussion Questions:

1. Pastor Rino mentioned that "Words matter." Can you share an experience where someone's words significantly impacted you, either positively or negatively?
2. The sermon highlighted Matthew 12:33-37. How does this passage challenge our view of casual or careless speech?
3. What struck you about the comparison between the tongue and a small spark that can set a forest ablaze?
4. The pastor said, "Christians talk differently than other people." In what ways should a Christian's speech be distinct? What challenges do you face in this area?
5. Reflect on Ephesians 4:29. How can we be more intentional about speaking words that build others up?
6. The sermon emphasized the need for consistency between our words in church and our words elsewhere. Where do you struggle most with this consistency?
7. How does filling ourselves with God's Word help us control our speech?

Practical Applications:

1. Daily Word Challenge: Commit to reading the daily Bible verse widget on your phone and reflecting on how it can shape your speech.
2. Speech Awareness: For one week, pay close attention to your words. Note instances where you speak negatively or carelessly, and instances where your words are life-giving.
3. Accountability Partners: Pair up with someone in the group to encourage each other in speaking words of life and avoiding harmful speech.
4. Gratitude Practice: Each day this week, express genuine appreciation to someone, focusing on the power of positive words.
5. Prayer Focus: Incorporate Psalm 19:14 into your daily prayers, asking God to make your words and thoughts pleasing to Him.

Closing Prayer: Thank God for His Word and ask for His help in taming your tongues. Pray for the strength to speak words that honor Him and build others up.