Key Takeaways:

1. Taking up our cross is a call to follow Christ wholeheartedly.
2. Carrying our cross is an ongoing, lifelong commitment.
3. God's ways and thoughts are higher than ours.
4. Denying self leads to discovering a greater, eternal purpose.
5. Embracing our cross means willingly accepting challenges for Christ.

Discussion Questions:

1. Pastor mentioned that "carrying the cross means it is on your back 24-7 until the day of glory comes." How does this perspective challenge or encourage you in your faith journey?
2. Reflect on the story of Elijah and the widow (1 Kings 17). How does this story illustrate the concept of self-denial and trusting God's plan?
3. The sermon emphasized that embracing our cross is not about passive acceptance but an active choice. What are some ways you can actively choose to carry your cross in daily life?
4. How does the idea of "trusting in God's plan" relate to carrying our cross? Share an experience where you had to trust God through a difficult situation.
5. Pastor said, "There is nothing hard when you're with Jesus." Do you agree or disagree? Why?
6. Discuss the concept of "burn" or passion that the pastor mentioned. What is your "burn" in life, and how does it align with honoring God?
7. How can we balance the idea of rejoicing in eternal rewards while still facing the challenges of carrying our cross in the present?

Practical Applications:

1. Daily Cross-Bearing: Identify one area in your life where you need to "deny yourself" this week. Share with the group and commit to praying for each other in these areas.
2. Serving Others: Choose a practical way to serve someone selflessly this week, following Christ's example of humility and love.
3. Prayer Focus: Commit to praying daily for persecuted Christians around the world, as mentioned in the sermon about the church in China.
4. Scripture Meditation: Spend time meditating on Matthew 16:24-26 this week. Journal your thoughts and share any insights at the next meeting.
5. Perspective Shift: When facing a challenge this week, consciously try to view it as an opportunity to carry your cross and bring glory to God.

Closing Prayer: Close the session by praying for strength and courage to carry our crosses, for a deeper understanding of God's love, and for opportunities to share Christ's love with others.